What do women look for in a man?
This is a tough question, really, and to narrow it down to one answer would be impossible! Women are so interesting and different, and so is their desires in men.
I’m sure most women have a list. It contains exactly what they are looking for, from what he looks like to what he does for a living. It’s strange how women get into this way of thinking, that life will fall into their time line, married by 26, two babies by 30. Life doesn’t work that way. And neither do men.
The List:
1. Really nice looking.
2. Has a great career and a lot of money.
3. Wants two children in the near future.
3. Loves to buy me flowers and take me out … a lot!
4. Has a good family [but they don't live too close]
5. Has good friends [but no hot women]
6. Loves to travel and take me with him
AH, the list. It does exist. We’ve all seen one. Tucked away in a special flowery box, wrinkled from being read so many times. What women want, does that really tie into who men even are?
A man who knows his own truth, and has a strong sense of self, is surely a man women are looking for? If a man is self aware and knows what he wants, isn’t that what women want? I’ve heard women say she would rather be in love and live in a shack, then to live in a mansion without love. And most women believe in that connection, the physical attraction! Women want the perfect combination of a great looks and personality.
Doesn’t everything depends on character and substance? And perhaps women have high expectations of their male counterpart, and are unrealistic about what they are looking for. Shouldn’t women want men to be sweet and kind? And to be loving and attentive? And for a man to listen truly with his heart is to move his way into a heart of a woman.
One woman is so full of her own self she doesn’t give much thought to the man adoring her. One is superficial and only dates a old creepy man with a fat pocketbook. Younger girls seem to go for a cool guy with a hot car. Older women may look for more inner qualities, and look past the beer belly.
What if the ideal man comes in a package she isn’t prepared for? Is he too short? Is he bald? Often when a good guy comes along a woman is too busy looking for Mr. Perfect, she is blind to his wonderful qualities, and all that he has to offer. Women do need to get over their personal hang ups about men. It’s ridiculous to think any one man can fulfill all of her worldly desires
Tags: Heart Of A Woman, Sense Of Self, Time Line